We seem to mind their mental illness is not the word, but since we found that the human mind will also have an unhealthy tendency after repeated attacks because of heart problems and even lost life becomes an endless stream of people. Why is it so? How much psychological pressure of modern man, would cause them to crash again and again? We explore together, these psychological suicide how far away from us.
Modern ethics has shifted, often because of some trivial matters causing suicidal behavior. One can imagine that the Chinese people for "life" sense of how knowledge is weak.
"Our suicide in each of the children lost a father or mother more than 1.6 million," the figure shocking. Reports indicate that the rural suicide rate was significantly higher than the urban women than in men, 1 / 3 of people who committed suicide death there is no mental disorder, 60% of suicide attempts are impulsive people who commit suicide.
From the data point of view, most people who commit suicide impulse to commit suicide? Why have it? Studies have reached a conclusion that a shift of modern ethics, often because of some trivial matters causing suicidal behavior. One can imagine that the Chinese people for "life" sense of awareness of the weak.
We have to admit that "impulse" is a psychological domain! Why have it? It is not consistent with traditional Chinese culture. From the beginning of Confucius, Confucian is to stress "benevolence", advocating a style of love; cause great impact on Chinese Buddhism, but also stood "impulse" of the opposition. The most prominent is the actual performance, "the Chinese people speak to harmony, not Chongshang Wu power", and martial arts of the people are only fit and healthy.
Then the impulse, why would the Chinese people quietly into life?
This "culture" are inextricably linked, in China's reform and opening up, the problem has been affecting the wealth of society nerves. Keep plenty of times in the material, spiritual training far behind. Created a "worship of money," "carpe diem" negative doctrine and the "life than money, however," the radical mentality. Especially in the wave of culture shock, the Chinese traditional culture by foreign cultural fight failure. Young lived a "Valentine's Day" forgotten "Tanabata Festival"; lived a "Christmas" forgotten "Double Ninth Festival." The older generation and the generation of confrontation and friction to become commonplace.
Friction is actually "impulse," the source, dripping the sea pool, a little more than the accumulation of friction, they will be come a large outbreak. Whether in urban or rural, family dispute between the old and new, has never stopped. There is no doubt that the older generation raised on "80" people's contempt. On the basis of the cultural disconnect, a new generation of people advocating freedom, individuality and independence, they do not want to accept the traditional concept of the older generation, while the older generation can not fully understand the inner world of a new era. Stick to their positions in each other, based on a lack of understanding, more friction and controversy.
After a long accumulation of psychological already formed a "depressed" tendencies. Often someone will say, "I can not stand you, I have to be crazy not to" and so on. Perhaps this is the root cause of impulsive suicides. But compared to the West, why there is the case of women than men commit suicide, why the high suicide rate in China?
Material and spiritual in the case of very asymmetric, the Chinese people's physical and mental being torn off, which resulted in a "zombie" morbid psychology. In particular, the media Big Zhangxuan Yang "stuporous" life, so many rural people or urban people who have underlying psychological comparison irresistible. Try to think about the women who sell their bodies by a few giants from wealthy women out of the increase in suicide, but also shows China's "son preference" in the ideological roots there; Chinese high suicide rates, shows that the Chinese people "life" too light to see the value. In the multiple comparison, the Chinese people's minds are inherently vulnerable; social reality in the relentless face of resistance to the Chinese people themselves are very weak; in the absence of target, the blind pursuit of material life circumstances, the Chinese people's psychology would have very depressing.
Who can say the Chinese are truly live their lives
Many people are envious of their way of life that they can travel, concerts, movies, open PARTY, in the final analysis is that they do not pay for all the hard work to support themselves. Chinese, right? Busy 70 years in China have come down to earth people who work are numerous. To come out of the world from the world, the Chinese have been busy, for what, to feed themselves. Simply to "live" and "living" life, I feel strong and strange
So, if you want to reduce the suicide of Chinese people, China must make to live in a relaxed environment, and to eliminate gender inequality in the traditional thinking. If, one day, Chinese people do not sleep all day because of work issues; not because of pension problems Chafanbusi; Do not worry about the house every day problems. And also at any time to travel, watching movies, listening to concerts. At that time, who does not cherish life, who do not want to live for two years?
Any suicide is a reason, and for this reason the final analysis, a relationship or with psychological problems, even if not enough on mental illness, but also of the nature of a potential heart disease. When we see reports of the time for those who have lost children, father or mother was worried, but who can guarantee, psychological suicide does not occur in their side?
If you can not change this society, we try to change yourself. Does not make life difficult for the adversity, there is no cross, but the psychological problems, sometimes if a different angle to, turn a dark piece of road, behind a blue sea and sky, but also large.
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