Five tips to open the hearts of men

Say "a woman heart, sea needle," a man's heart? Is simply not open? Maybe you lack a spell Alibaba. Five tips listed here ... ...
Tip one: a real man, afraid of being rejected Want to be sure, fear of being rejected, especially by his closest woman refused, it is common problem for men.

 
Survey shows that most men feel that women always pick and choose for them, so they are worried speak their minds, get is ridicule, which they are greatly humiliated. Man's self-esteem as the egg shells are fragile as a class, you give him more recognition, he more easily and speak their minds. This does not mean you do not have views or your views on this matter did not. Love a man is to accept him, not mold him. If he speaks, you will return a "that is wrong, I do not agree" or "Where did you get this crazy idea," he would immediately mollified by.

 
Mujixiadan a work to do before is to determine the environment is safe, because those eggs are safe after the birth of it critical. By the same token, people talking about their innermost secret heart to determine if they can accept, because the secret treasure of his heart. Do not think that men do not care about everything Datailielie, he always carefully before opening watching you.

 
Tip two: light to indicate your position
Some women listening to men about the inner secrets would only like woodpeckers nodded in agreement. Wrong! At this time a man needs is to share the joy. Speak truth at the same time he is accompanied by all kinds of fear and anxiety. For example many men would not stop to consider, "If I say, and she will leave me" this problem. This is clear when you need light stand, you have to speak. When he tells you some very personal things to be said like this - "It was not too bad, I did a little worse." Or "I really appreciate what happened." Let him know you like him, his experience is not unique.

 
Remember that you must stand on his side. Many women, after hearing the story of a man just said he views this matter is wrong. To stand so that you virtually the opposite of his. For example, he tells you not get along with his colleagues, from his point of view you look at this matter, and not as an analysis of wildly really understand, say something like "In fact, people may not mean" sort of nonsense . Create a harmonious, let him feel you both occupy the same planet and live in similar worlds. Your honest and positive feedback is critical. If you do, he'll be excited to resonate forever.

 
Tip three: the willing to let go
Have you had this experience: you and your husband or boyfriend in the conversation snowballed into a bitter memory, including the things he did miss, the way he hurt you, and he now owes you anything. This husband and wife or lovers each occur in the psychological experts said that this feeling makes men cringe. In fact, there is a saying you do not want to hear - all the love is like dancing, you share the correct answer in the same time also sharing error. Know what a tango bar, even if the fault is his, this error you can not say no responsibility.

 
Men fear most what a woman does not let go of the past, so it is rarely revisit the issues. Their concern is not without reason, some women like to play the victim and "martyr" role, they need to use the blame for love, so feel good about themselves. Perhaps, this approach could allow them to temporarily stuck some men, but remember, if dressed Jour sacrifice to keep the past by men, it shows your feelings have been very dangerous.

 
Tip four: exercise the courage to listen to the truth
You have to have the courage to listen to the truth.
Many men feel that women want or need a beautiful lie. Some of my clients said that they were afraid to tell their partners what happens in life, or their true feelings, as this will disappoint each other. Know why men leave the impression you give it? Because in fact, many women prefer men with emotional control - and thus control their relationships. Women often ask men to commit the specific reactions, such as her weeping, men should be immediately sent to the shoulders, accompanied by very gentle whisper. Not when the woman down. In fact, this is to imply that men do not tell the truth.

 
We make such mistakes from time to time, but willing to listen to the truth is the real beginning of mature relations between the sexes. This will make a man feel he has a reliable partner, and to whom the danger. Do not do something self-deception, do not lose hope, maybe you still can not accept all the facts, but as long as you want, you will be able to exercise their tolerance. Fantasy make women feel good, but the more we accept the fact that we will become more strong. True security comes not from the approval of others but to their own faith, only why we only listen to the truth.

 
Tip five: for their true
Help a man is the best way to say mind your own honest, natural, real, and the release of a warm and accepting atmosphere. We encounter in life who is like all the different features of the mirror of our own, we have attracted other people, who make us fall in love with his body strength. This is why I presented here not only for the five topics for our men and women themselves. For example, you can give up the self-evaluation? Can you not for his past wrong things to heart? Or do you always by your mistakes and failures overshadowed by? A place for people, but how could forgive his own people?

 
When a person fully accept himself, he can create a completely relaxed state. Do you think that some people had a sort of charm, even if we met with them not long, we are willing to believe them and say truth. If we can do have a clear understanding of their own, you basically get rid of this era of popular impetuous, mercurial, camouflage, conceited and self-esteem, so people who read both intimacy.