2010年11月4日星期四

Most men want the wife of worship

Some success is often confused man's wife, the husband a good man at home more and more teachers, even for grocery shopping to cook, clean up the house that he was not good at something, but also pointing. Men often do not care to grasp the details of wife of a fuss, as if his wife never to trust, not satisfied. One day, this man feel more and more critical of his wife is not happy, and even more insecure. In fact, both men and women, are like to be praise and compliments.
Compared with women, successful men are more eager to be respected, to be worshiped. Although they have a lot of respect and out of worship, but back home, still wants his wife's worship. The couple married about ten years, has entered into Shenmeipilao stage between husband and wife talk without masking her husband speak more cynical. In particular, successful husband thinks because of his efforts, as the family made a great contribution to the economy, so his wife in front of peers and friends and relatives are proud, very decent, so full of self-confidence and assertive, getting more and more straight talk often thought to blurt out without thinking, feelings for the profound feelings that the wife did not stay.
 
But women do not think so, they believe that man is a social animal, outside CEOs do matter whether a manager Ye Hao, given that the social status, how can you not be too assertive, but, back home, husband and wife room should be mutual respect, equal Moreover, men are basically clothes at home to hand out rice to mouth, even his wife's face should be given enough.

 
Some of the family as men and women do not realize the difference, leading to her husband in order to maintain family dignity, and his wife, a seriously, his wife does not buy it, even to refute her husband importune, I do not know enough.

 
Over time, the "war" escalated, the man the more eager to show dignity in the face of his wife, the wife and husband fight more ruthlessly.

 
Fight against family harmony is actually a drug, arguing the party winning the largest being the victim, whether her husband prevailed, or the wife to "convince" her husband, the nature of the problem is not resolved, it is likely that between husband and wife increasing distance, becoming cold war hot.

 
Some families appear irreparable rift which eventually led to marriage.

 
Psychological experts suggest that couples should communicate more about art, that the truth can not be directly said that every word must be a good think about before, but to consider each other's feelings. Couple years, it seems the left hand pull the right hand, but that is a family business together, we only account for 50% of the shares of the shareholders, like the hedgehog, nestling between two, both would like to firmly close to each other, and is very afraid of the other side quills tie to their own.

Success and gain respect for her husband on the outside, but he was very clear, many people praise with camouflage, in essence, is actually very purposeful, and only in front of his wife, get more respect is the most real, the most credible. Therefore, they are very eager to his wife's worship of the heart, but because of men but also to the face, embarrassed to say it.

 
So, when the wife to face her husband's fault and blame, and more inclusive him, understand him, to put this critical as trust, even as a wish in front of coquetry in their own right.

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