Many people looking for life and his ambition is to fit the other half, so engrossed in the love of the pursuit of camp, as if he was just half a circle, if you can not complete a circle, will have a heart defect. Unfortunately, search results are always backfire ... ... Why?
We tend to harm the body and mind by this idea: a single-minded purpose ─ ─ want to get married, that only the red carpet into the other end of life is complete. But why not think I've become a complete circle? Only a correct perception of the first to be blind not to pursue it. The difference is that others in pairs, no longer self-pity, self-Ai, self-hatred himself all alone. You will know how to enjoy solitude, to appreciate loneliness.
Because Pa Jimo have some friends and want to get married to carried away, and even other violent can not be seen, even after he was beaten black and blue like the pig, they are also stubborn, that it is being loved to madness can not be controlled in performance, may also be complacent with this charm is irrational.
But of course this will give a woman a man in addition to the "fist", he will give some "sweeteners", such as cook, massage comfortable, sex meet, when you slaves ... ..., so you only see these "benefits" to the neglect the dressing of the "wound" because one day ring true his heart, you become a bag.
When people in sexual gratification, whether it will become insatiable appetite or sexual desire, your need for excessive, as if the appetite was never stretch enough to eat; but when emotions ran aground, mankind's desire to have its common, this both had the desire and will as "anorexia" or "empty disorder." Not eat the formation of self-abandon of "anorexia", and the extreme to eat to fill an inner void and let off steam, and the formation of low self-esteem of the "emptiness of disorder."
Whether you suffer from any disease than are absolutely not to cry attitude, because you will be his self-esteem trampled on the ground, do not let yourself get double damage thing. So empty compared anorexic disease than people seem ascetic not a bad idea, at least not become men and women in A Streetcar Named Desire, but sorry not on the ride to get on the car, and then Advantages and Disadvantages in the dead of night, watching mirror people more and more gaunt, your heart is the want of his guilt or compassion? Or self-revenge, abuse yourself? But change is you see each other for the stoop, not a human form, you will be glad to run fast, but do not want to see more of him. So Rentongcixin, Xintongcili, then neither anorexia do not have to empty, in fact, the results with or without the feelings they have to you can "spirit of independence."
Even if the day has finally married, I thought I could from the first harmonic of white old? Your spouse or have the opportunity to betray you, make you feel like affair into utter misery. Damage to your physical or mental harm, that is, you will build confidence in his affirmation of you, you will want to put on him, then once without him, do you think your world so full of destruction. So I reiterate that he is a complete circle, complete individual idea is to remind the dream of the future partners who paid too much to know, should live their life in charge of the premise, the actual occurrence of a spirit of independence thinking is necessary.
The men fall in love again
If you know the following guidelines may soon be able to find a happy marriage.
First, create an ideal man can only be futile
In fact, many women have a higher rate of return of things to do, do not be obsessed with their own will by the couple to re-shape their own, because that would only lead to failure, is futile.
Second, the "child" type and "aging mother" type of failure are
Men need to be mature lovers, both to be his friend and his partner can do, and never need a minor Jiao woman. In general, fragile woman full of women or good at manipulating others will only make a man fled.
Third, the woman's anger will scare away all the men
Generally speaking, those who have had experience of women love to meet new men, the lover of the old anger and resentment is always a, and this past anger tends to make it as a great new partner fear.
Fourth, many good men often pass
The best quality of people often can not easily be found only in a stage together only when the Shining. So a woman it's hard to find good men around them, but by those who ostensibly "romantic chic," the men are confused. In fact, this handsome men, free and easy for women only to the original passion, can never be a lasting contribution to the companion of love.
Fifth, women looking for love do not come better
Will appear some time in life unexpected surprises, this is because people do not deliberately look forward to the scene of the occurrence of surprises. Men hate women cherish a love life expectation because they are more like to see everything in nature occurs. Therefore, women can only lead to over-expect to be bored, lack of friends.
Sixth, women always know how to live both Rigid and Flexible
Fortitude and tenderness of women can create the perfect combination of the miracle of love life, so that heterosexual intercourse has become healthy and full of flavor. Smart woman know how to appreciate the charm of women themselves, but also believe they have the ability to attract the eyes of her lover. Because of her confidence, so can the fortitude shown on the basis of feminine tenderness.
Seven, "searching for" sweetheart must be proactive
Good men do not fall from the sky, must rely on themselves to create opportunities for women to actively fight for it. Wise woman will not passively await the appearance of her lover, they will take the initiative to successfully grasp the opportunity to find and get a man's love. Love this woman know how to enjoy fun in the process, as the ultimate love can be the opposite sex, but not the most important, at least she has tried, and has a happy feeling.
Eight romantic love need something to contain
Man in love is always in the spirit of excited state, it is very natural. That is, when a man in the pursuit of women, his attitude is positive, but also a bit excited. However, once they get what they want, excitement will be gone along, no irritation. Therefore, and the other to maintain a certain sense of distance and mystery help develop long-term relationship.
Nine, men do not speak of love commitment
Man to the woman in love do not want to promise too much, do not even make the commitment, which has been the woman could not guess the mystery. Although they have been through their own actions to express their position, but their verbal promise to get very difficult. Smart woman knows how to cause a man with a clever mind the language of the shock, forcing them to make a commitment of love.
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