Men like too many things packed in my heart, if you can not get him comfortable open your heart, then you want him that much attention on it is tantamount to nonsense. Moreover, if a wife can not be good to listen to their husbands, then who is going to talk to him what should it?
Women do not necessarily have to pretty, but must live in the beautiful; women do not have to congenital smart, but must be acquired to develop smart; women do not have their pain is pain, pain is the best a man hurt, to see Xiu to see how can it best pain:
1, to listen to him, respect him
Men like too many things packed in my heart, if you can not get him comfortable open your heart, then you want him that much attention on it is tantamount to nonsense. Moreover, if a wife can not be good to listen to their husbands, then who is going to talk to him what should it? Similarly, a good face for the advanced species, even if you are unwilling to give respect, then how can luxury he can give you more love and care of it?
2, do not ignore false
Sometimes, seeing is not necessarily the fact, to imagine not feeling alone, but to see the truth through these phenomena is not easy to change the essence. He was angry with you does not mean he does not love you, he is not indifferent to you do not care about you, probably, more often, he has a special way to convey his love for you.
3, do not speculate on his mind
Not just a woman heart, sea needle, a man's heart, still is smoke and mirrors. If you deliberately to touch and reveal him, and will only make him resent and conservative, your guessing was to him only the resistance and escape, this result will be worth the candle. And sky would be better to give him a free, he'll appreciate that.
4, learn to say "I can not"
While riding in the men lord it over his head freely, but only insisted on the mask will let you live alone and suffering. Women need not be so strong, not necessarily to be so resolutely and, sometimes, to experience the charm of weak will give you surprises. Your "can not" will only make him cherish and love you, not being his contempt.
5, with the woman's way of saying yes
This is not dissipated, it is only a love of power and freedom. A yes from your mouth to say not only does not make him your love goes, it will deepen the feelings between you. Sometimes, your yes, will melt in an instant all his nerves, you just need to properly enjoy his gentle enough on the line.
6 hurt to tell him
You know the pain of the men and women is made of water. If you're always so strong, so perfect, as if he did not get hurt, then he's tenderness will become useless, then how can he imposed on you? Therefore, when the harm must be timely to tell him, so as to give him a stage, and to give yourself a chance to love.
7, abandon the myth of equality
Whether you admit it or not, this society is far from absolute equality between men and women to achieve the kind of time. If you only indulge in such a world of myth, then you will lose what followed. If timely read to put such a myth, get more than you lose much more.
8, we get what
Social progress is constantly thinking, feelings of sublimation from the non-stop thinking the same. Comparison and review occasionally give him some friendly hint, whether out of guilt or compensation, you will get from him a more effective care, as long as a good degree of certainty, you will honey in it.
9, to learn the same as a diplomat helped him deal with some matters
Not find fault, nor is it superfluous, but not the more help the more chaotic, in which you want to show their wisdom to help in the wrist, just as handy as a highly competent diplomat. This "revolutionary friendship", will only make him such a sudden rush Qijing you, cherish.
10, that he is the father of the child
Sufficient condition for all the necessary conditions to be launched around this, if you can not even guarantee that, then you do not get from him with due care. This is not a lie, in fact, many of these things are happening.
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